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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Distance with Love.

This is another great morning
but it is still my night.
yes...it is still a midnight for me.
because im not going to bed yet!
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recently i heard alot of some cases from my friend..
Yeah~ the relationship problem again..
The big problem is there is a gap between the boy side and the girl side..
Yeah! it is a serious case..
What i can say is try to know each others' lifestyle deeply..
Not only just to meet or dinner with each other and done..
Nono~ useless!
Be a partner, both side got the responsibility get to know both lifestyle, friends, family etc.
far distance can really affect the relationship...
This is what i heard, saw from several cases before..
Distance.
I bet every partner is afraid of far distance.
Because it is hard to maintain a relationship..
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I like this sentences by Amy Strachman, Ph.D

When the distance finally closes, these idealisations can lead to a break-up. A relationship may be happy and steady while apart but these false idealisations can lead to disappointment when the couple is together.
To make a relationship last, you need to be a good communicator, so be willing to express how you feel. Be sure to talk about everything, just as you would if you saw your partner every day. It’s important to create intimacy with them, even if this can’t be physical. Couples that are proactive about getting to know each other and keep a grounded perception of their relationship will be much more likely to make it survive.
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so learn it everyone...

Good Night.


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